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Birmingham Alabama

Weight Loss Surgery Support Group
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Brenda Davis
Support Group
Leader
~ Coordinator ~
WLS RNY
04/05/07
For more
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Brenda has graciously
agreed to take over the support group meetings for Lisa and Kevin effective the
March 2008 meeting on. Kevin and I will be moving and unable to continue
the meetings. We will leave this webpage up, since everyone knows
it, for the Birmingham Support Group, and update it for Brenda and the members,
with the meeting dates, and any information Brenda needs, including important
links, etc. So keep checking back for updates, as this will still be one
of the primary resources of information for you to get information. Brenda
is in the process of obtaining her ObesityHelp Leader certification and should
have that completed within the next week or so. Kevin and I will update
you on our move & info in the near future. Thanks to everyone for the last
5 - 6 years of attending our support group meetings and all the great meetings
and fun! We will miss you. 4/7/08!
NEW
Click here to
view the new pictures site for all WLS Pics from Meetings and Past WLS Friends
Pics Too!
NEW
There are years and years of
pictures (hundreds of them)... so check them out. They are from this and my
previous support groups, AMOS friends, various WLS friends. We are still
uploading them, as there are SO many, updating captions and dates. Many
dates have to be corrected, as we had to date them all the same to get them to
group together correctly.
Meetings are normally on Saturdays from 1-4 p.m.
(always check calendar for current meeting date
and time)
** Note: Scroll to the bottom of
this page for support groups in other cities in Alabama if you have problems
attending ours because of your schedule or the drive.
Support is important in all stages of
weight loss surgery. From those just learning about surgery, to those
scheduled to have surgery to those several years post-op, everyone needs
support. We encourage you to join us each month to talk & learn about
pre-op & post-op experiences and care.
Pre-ops: Come and
meet others who know what you are going through, who have been
there. Ask questions and find out what is in store for you if you
choose to have weight loss surgery. A whole new life awaits you, but you
should know the risks and the joys of what is to come.
Post-ops:
Come share your stories with others who can learn from your experiences.
Discuss post-op aftercare and take charge of your new health & life.
Be sure to bring your before picture for us to see.
Family members and friends are welcome, as they
are also an important part of our support system.
We try to include much of the
follow at all or many of our meetings:
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Have group discussions regarding
important WLS issues at most all meetings. This will only change if we
schedule a speaker for a special meeting.
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Provide an on-line e-mail support
group. This way you are not alone the rest of the month in between
meetings. A great way to continue support anytime you need it.
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Exchange clothes. Bring all those good clothes that you
can't wear anymore. Someone else is sure to be able to use them &
you can hopefully pick up some clothes for yourself too!
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Exchange recipes. We will
gather great recipes for the post-ops new diet that will be low/sugar free
or higher in protein and hopefully taste good too!
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Have sometimes scheduled speakers with
pertinent information useful to the pre-op & post-op WLS patient.
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Make available "restaurant
cards" for post-op patient's convenience.
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Take "before" and
"after" pictures to document your progress along the way.
Pictures show more than we can ever see in ourselves otherwise.
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NOTE: We
have started to address heavily the emotional aspects that this surgery has
after surgery. Many people are not aware and do not know how to deal
with what comes along afterwards. The food addictions, the transfer of
addictions, the emotional eating, the gain-back after being a few years out.
So PLEASE join us if you need help with these issues. We are here for
you!!!!!!
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***** GREAT NEWS:
In becoming Certified by ObesityHelp as Support Group Leaders, not only do
they advertise our support group meetings for us on their support group page
now on www.obesityhelp.com BUT,
they also do great things for us for our members and meetings. They
provide all of our members with free Obesityhelp magazines (starting
in about 3 months after our certifications, so the first issue will come
around January or February hopefully for the meetings. That is awesome!!!!
We can order free samples from vendors for our support groups, so we plan on
doing this soon also, although vendors may be limited and vary from time to
time, hey, it's more than we had before!!! They provide us with
handouts each month, and we have archives that we went back through and
printed up some great articles to bring with us to the next meeting too!
They will be giving us our own "webpage" on ObesityHelp to go to, with our
own messageboard to post on, post pictures, and do all kinds of stuff,
which is VERY cool. That will be coming around January 1, 2008.
So look forward to new & great things to come. This will help us get
the word out about our support group to those who are looking for support,
access resources we couldn't before, network with other leaders to learn
more and maintain training along the way. How cool is that?!!!!!! On
another note, Kevin also has become certified as a leader, so congrats!!!!
He will be able to have separate membership, so he can start up a separate
group later if we need one (like for men, or for further out post-ops, or
whatever the greatest need is), but we get to order extra stuff for our
members this way! :) (Posted 11/9/07)
If you would like to join us in
making the most of your WLS experience, then mark your calendar & plan on
coming. We can't wait to see you there!
Visit the Association for Morbid
Obesity Support (AMOS) at ObesityHelp.com Website
Dr. Clement Cotter, Jr.
(Plastic Surgeon)
Website
Website
Join the Yahoo
Email Group for meeting updates, etc.
CALENDAR OF UPCOMING
SCHEDULED MEETING DATES
* Note: All
meetings are subject to change - ALWAYS CHECK BEFORE GOING TO A MEETING TO MAKE
SURE THE MEETING IS STILL BEING HELD.
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Join us for group discussions, informational
handouts, before/after pictures, clothing
exchange (when scheduled), etc. Bring your questions, support family/friends, and anything you'd like to share too! |
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** November & December meetings
are off schedule, due to the holidays.
We DO NOT meet
on the regular day for these months. Be sure to check the schedule in
advance for these months. ** |
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2008 Meeting Info: |
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| Saturday, July 19, 2008 |
Meeting to be held 1-4 p.m across the street from the
hospital, at Sol Azteca Restaurant. Currently looking for a good
meeting place, so anyone knowing of any good suggestions, please contact
the support group leader, Brenda directly. See you there!!!! |
| Saturday, June, 2008 |
Meeting Cancelled this month, due to family emergency
with Brenda Davis. |
| Saturday, May, 2008 |
Brenda Davis, held at Sol Azteca, across from Baptist
Shelby Hosptial. |
Saturday, April 19, 2008
* SPECIAL EVENT * |
This is the day of
the Annual ABS Reunion out at Oak Mountain State Park at
the SandPiper Pavillion. Here is the link to the page on
ObesityHelp.com
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/absreunion/ Just click on it
to read for information. I will also send out information via the
Birmingham Yahoo Email Group (you can sign up on it above) as I receive
it, so you can stay updated on info, or read updates on ObesityHelp.com
Alabama Message Board at the link here:
http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/al/a,messageboard/board_id,4803/
. Instead of having our meeting that day, we always encourage our
members to attend this event, as people come from all over the state to
this event. There are anywhere from 100+ WLS patients/hopefuls
there, surgeons, plastic surgeons, vendors, and their families, having a
great day in the sun (hopefully!). This is a wonderful event (I
think this is the 4th year) where you can meet so many other WLS people
in one place. Everyone brings something, so read up, whether it is
a covered dish, paper supplies, etc. They use to exchange clothes,
they are making up special T-shirts and selling them, so check up on
that, to be sure you order yours in time if you want one! If you
know anyone that wants to attend, be sure to tell them about this event.
It is open to everyone. There is a fee to get into Oak Mountain,
to check out the details on the above links and be sure NOT TO MISS THIS
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Saturday, March
29, 2008
1- 4 pm ** Date Changed **
Due to Spring Break Holidays! |
Currently scheduled
to meet at Sol Azteca Mexican Restaurant across from Shelby Baptist
Hospital. This has turned out to be a good meeting place the last
couple of months. They are not too busy, offer us the back room if we
need it. We can order small if we want, and don't feel obligated to
order at all if you are a new post-op, we can share with you or you
don't have to eat at all. ****** Brenda Davis will be taking over the
meeting, as I will have surgery on 3/21 and & not able to attend.
Thank you Brenda ****** |
Saturday, February 16, 2008
1- 4 pm
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Meeting was held at Sol Azteca Mexican Restaurant across the
street from Shelby Baptist Hospital. We went till 6pm!!!!!! Tells
you how much fun we have!!!! It was SO great to meet you new guys and
gals. To see some of the faces of those who had not been in
awhile, and our old faithful ones that come EVERY month!!!!! You are all
awesome! We missed taking a picture of one of you, as you left
before we remembered!!! We HAVE to start taking pictures earlier!!!!
Those of you losing weight, congrats!!! You look awesome! Thanks
to those who bring clothes, as others need them SO badly, as you found
out!!! We really need to get some smaller sizes, for those of you who
have already lost and need those smaller sizes. The Oak Mountain
event on April 19th should be a great place to maybe do that! They
always have a clothing exchange and with 100+ people coming, there
surely should be tons of clothes. I am going to get the link
information posted here soon. It was great to pass out FREE
ObesityHelp magazines for our
members provided by ObesityHelp for anyone who attended! We will be
doing this at every meeting, so be sure to join us to pick up the most
recent copy. A new one comes out every other month! Will
have the pictures we took posted in the next few days. Be sure to
look for them. They are great!!!! |
Saturday, January 19, 2008
1-4 pm |
Meeting held at Sol Azteca Mexican Restaurant across the street from
Shelby Baptist Hospital. It snowed, so of course, it was just a few of
us, but thanks for showing!!!!! We still had a blast, as we always do!!
We hope to see the rest of you next month. Brenda, congrats on the
additional 20 lbs lost and the new jeans!!! You look awesome! Will get
your pics posted soon!!!! |
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2007 Meetings: |
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December 8, 2007
Off Schedule
due to holidays |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1-4 p.m. Room 2-B
* New article handouts, letters of
attendance for those who need them for insurance company. Round
table discussion: Preparation for surgery (both LapBand & RNY), Aftercare,
Weight Regain, Emotional Issues/Food Addiction, Swapping Obsessions, etc.
*Note: We had 2 new members (lap band) which we were thrilled to meet!!
Such a joy to have new members and hope you learned alot and had a great
time. Sorry we forgot to take pics!!!!!
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November 10,
2007 **
Off Schedule due to holidays |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1-4 p.m. Room 2-B
We had new and return members which is
always great! We discussed the problems with "process" before
surgery and how to go about handling those problems. These problems
seem to be an ongoing problem and we try our best to help the patients
through those times and make them better. We had TONS of new
handouts and articles for those who attended, tables full (we are running
out of room! :) We did forget to take pictures of our new members, as we
ran long on the meeting and time got away from us! SOOO sorry, so be sure
we take pictures this next time! We got just a few at the end.
Will post them soon.
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October 27,
2007 ***
RESCHEDULED TO 4TH SATURDAY THIS MONTH |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1-4 p.m. Room 2-B
Had new members (YAY) and return members
(YAY YAY) which is so great for both!!!! We absolutely always have the
best time. Check out our pictures on google (link up above).
It was SO nice to meet those of you who were new, answer questions.
I hope it helped like it seemed to. We always learn SO much. I
have to get new handouts for the next meeting!!!! We went to visit 2 brand
new post-ops from ObesityHelp that had just had surgery, over in the
hospital that I had gotten emailed about, and that was SO much fun.
We took pics to send to one's mom, and met a lady who will be coming to
the meeting next month!!!! It's always such a joy to meet new people.
We had such a blast. We were there for like 8 hours between the
meeting and visiting... wow what a day!!!! And thanks Brenda for going to
visit with us! The next meeting is just in a couple weeks - November
10th !!!!
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September 15,
2007 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1-4 p.m. Room 2-A
* New article handouts, new picture
website to share, take pictures for everyone, restaurant cards, letters of
attendance for those who need them for insurance company. Round
table discussion: Preparation for surgery (both LapBand & RNY), Aftercare,
Weight Regain, Emotional Issues/Food Addiction, Swapping Obsessions, etc.
*Note: We had an absolute blast and really enjoyed meeting the new ones
and seeing the returning members! We always have such a great
time!!!!!
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August 18,
2007
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Saturday Morning Meeting 10 am - 2 pm Room 2-A ** Special Meeting **
Special Speaker:
Plastic Surgeon:
Dr.
Clement Cotter
*Click on his name to go his website (there is also a photo gallery, along
with surgery information on each procedure.)
Dr. Cotter spoke, had a DVD presentation, answered questions, AND brought
a Bariatric patient who had had several procedures to show the after
results and talk about her experiences, which was absolutely AWESOME!
Thank you! We had food and beverages for everyone, and after a break,
around 12:15-12:30 we began our normal monthly WLS Support Group Meeting,
which was very productive and informative. Thanks to Dr. Cotter, his
special guest, and all of our members that attended this very important
meeting!!!! You can click on Dr. Cotter's name above to visit
his website.
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July 21. 2007 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1-4 p.m. Room 2-B
* New article handouts, bring your
photos, we will take photos for you, have beverages, restaurant cards.
Round table discussion. Information on aftercare, pre-op
preparation, upcoming WLS cruise, new protein pills. Bring those
clothes to participate in swapping clothes!!!! Get information on next
month's special speaker, Plastic Surgeon,
Dr.
Clement Cotter! He's coming out special for us on a Saturday! Thank
You!!!!!! |
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June 16. 2007 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1-4 p.m. (Room 2-B) |
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May 19, 2007 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1 - 4 p.m. (Room 2-B) |
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April 21,
2007 |
Oak Mountain State Park (Annual Event - R.S.V.P.)
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/absreunion/ |
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March 17,
2007 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1 -4 p.m. (Room
2-B). |
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February 17, 2007 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1 -4 p.m. (Room 2-B).
Round Table Discussion. A
special thanks to Dr. Clement Cotter, Plastic Surgeon, for stopping by to
talk with us & answer questions and discuss setting a future meeting for our
group to attend on "Reconstructive Surgery after Bariatric Surgery".
We tentatively will set a meeting in April or Mary. Check back for
more info. |
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January 27, 2007 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1 - 4 p.m. (Postponed from
1/20 to 1/27) Met in Room 2-B upstairs instead of 2-A. |
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2006 Meetings: |
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December 9, 2006 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1 - 4 p.m. |
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November 11, 2006 |
Saturday Afternoon Meeting 1 - 4 p.m.
Michelle, the Bariatric Coordinator with
Cahaba Valley Surgical Group joined to talk and to help alleviate some of the
pre-surgery approval stress by answering specific questions about
paperwork & the approval process. Thanks Michelle! |
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October 23, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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October 14, 2006 |
** Special Saturday Meeting **
1 - 4 p.m. |
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September 25, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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No Saturday Meeting this month |
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August 28, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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August 12, 2006 |
** Special Saturday Meeting **
1 - 3 or 4 p.m. |
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July 24, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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July 15, 2006 |
** Special Saturday Meeting **
1 - 3 p.m. |
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June 26, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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June 10, 2006 |
** Special Saturday Meeting **
1 - 4 p.m. |
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May 22, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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April 24, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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March 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Met at Sol Azteca Mexican Restaurant across
from the Hospital. |
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February 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m.
Met at Sol Azteca
Mexican Restaurant across from the Hospital. |
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January 23, 2006 |
Monday Evening Meeting 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. |
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2005 Meetings: |
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** We have cancelled November &
December meetings since they fell at the holidays. We tried to get a
room reserved for another time, but were not able to in time. We will
definitely meet at our regular time in January, listed below, but also try
to schedule a Saturday gathering in late January or February, so that more
people can attend, so keep a watch for information to be posted on here &
the group site closer to time!!! Happy Holidays everyone. |
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December 2005 *** |
MAY BE RESCHEDULED-CHECK BACK FOR MORE INFO |
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November 2005 *** |
MAY BE RESCHEDULED-CHECK BACK FOR MORE INFO |
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October 24,
2005 |
Meet in the Shelby
Hospital parking lot behind the parking deck in front of
the Administrative Bldg. from 6pm-6:30pm & we will clothes swap in parking
lot like last month.
We will take a head
count for how many we have & since we had SUCH a great turn-out last
month, we will go across to Sol Azteca Mexican Restaurant at 6:30pm again.
We will arrange the tables differently this month so everyone gets to
visit with everyone else. Bring your questions, support pals, clothes and
anything else you want & join us for a great social time with WLS
friends. We always enjoy the meetings and learn so much. If you have
something you'd like to share, bring that too. Can't wait to see you then!
Email me by Sunday if
you have any questions.
Call my cell on Monday
evening if you are running late and can't be there for the head count by
6:30 & want us to save you a seat! If you are new & not been able to
join us before, please feel free to come. We'd love you have you! Check
out the support meeting dates page of my website for more info.
P.S. Last month we had
11 attendees & of the post-ops, we had lost a total of 1188 lbs.!!!!
Awesome job guys!!!!!!
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September 26, 2005 |
We will be meeting at the Admin Bldg. behind
the parking deck at Shelby Hospital where we always meet, (but in the
parking lot) at 6:30. We will do a head-count & then go across the
street at 6:45 to have light appetizers (you can purchase your own meals &
drinks if you like); enjoy great company & conversation (as usual)
We hope you can join us as we
always have a great time!!!! |
| August 22, 2005 |
Round table discussion
(pre-op questions/post-op aftercare). Bring a friend or family support
member! Light snacks (like: Sugar Free Punch/Water/Meat & Cheese). Bring
those clothes you can't wear anymore & hopefully pick some up that you
can!!!! |
| July 25,
2005 |
Round table discussion
(pre-op questions/post-op aftercare). Bring a friend or family support
member! Light snacks (like: Sugar Free Punch/Water/Meat & Cheese). Bring
those clothes you can't wear anymore & hopefully pick some up that you
can!!!! |
| June 27,
2005 |
We have Dr. Clement Cotter
(Plastic Surgeon) as key speaker at this month's meeting. If time permits
afterwards, we will have "round-table" discussion, with light snacks &
beverages, clothing exchange and meeting great people (pre-op, post-op, and
friend/family support members alike). Pre-op & Post-Op picture-taking too.
Doors will open at 6pm this month. |
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| May 23,
2005 |
*** Note new meeting location
above. Round table discussion
(pre-op questions/post-op aftercare). Bring a friend or family support member!
Light snacks (Sugar Free Punch/Water/Meat & Cheese tray). Bring those
clothes you can't wear anymore & hopefully pick some up that you can!!!! |
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| April 25,
2005 |
Meeting held at Sol Azteca
Mexican Restaurant across from Shelby Baptist Hospital in back meeting room.
Dinner provided. |
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| March 28, 2005 |
Round Table Discussion
(Last meeting at Community Center) |
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| February 22, 2005
**Date Change-Registration Required |
Informational meeting on the
changes in Requirements for Pre-Certification and new Insurance Company
Requirements regarding WLS. Presented by Cahaba Valley Surgical Group, PC. |
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| January 24, 2005 |
Round table discussion
(pre-op questions/post-op aftercare). Take before/after pictures.
Bring a friend or family support member! |
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2004 Meetings: |
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| December 27,
2004 * |
Canceled * Note change below |
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| December 14,
2004 (Tuesday*) |
Rescheduled to this
date due to the Holidays (check
back for meeting info) |
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| November 22,
2004 * |
Canceled * Note change above |
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| October 25,
2004 |
Round table discussion, clothes swap,
pictures, hand-outs, laminated restaurant cards |
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| September 27,
2004 |
Round table discussion, clothes swap,
pictures, hand-outs |
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| August 23,
2004 |
Guest: Surgeon(s)
from Cahaba Valley Surgical regarding WLS surgery ** |
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| July 26, 2004 |
Guest: Plastic
Surgeon - Dr. Clement Cotter |
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| We have been
having support group meetings since September 2003. I only have
information online for meetings back to July 2004. |
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OTHER CITY
SUPPORT GROUPS
Many have asked for information on
other cities support groups because of the drive. As I locate them, I will
post their information here. If you have information that will help others
email it to me. Hope this helps someone. Please verify the
information as valid and that you can attend before you make the drive!!!
Montgomery Area:
Dr. Parham Mora
841 Gillespie Street
Prattville, AL 36067
(314) 361-6126
moraclinic@bellsouth.net
Meetings
are held at Prattville Doster Community Center
424 South
Northington Street, Prattville, AL
7:00 p.m.
November
13th & December 18th
*Subject
to change, check before going
Email
them to subscribe to their monthly email newsletter
ALSO: Obesityhelp.com has a list of
support groups that are "sanctioned" by them in each state. Click on this
link below to
see a list of the ones listed by area in Alabama. You can contact someone
from there if you find one close to you!
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This page last updated:
July 06, 2008
Email:
brendavis3@yahoo.com
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